{"id":74,"date":"2015-03-14T16:16:50","date_gmt":"2015-03-14T22:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.managerjs.com\/blog\/?p=74"},"modified":"2015-03-14T16:17:31","modified_gmt":"2015-03-14T22:17:31","slug":"why-am-i-happy-about-giving-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.managerjs.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/why-am-i-happy-about-giving-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Am I Happy About Giving Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The snow-shoe hike to Donut Falls was supposed to be the\u00a0capstone to last night&#8217;s overnight camp. So, why do I feel good about\u00a0giving up on the hike this morning?<\/p>\n<p>Just yesterday I posted about <a title=\"Stooping for Pennies Loses the Crown\" href=\"http:\/\/www.managerjs.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/stooping-for-pennies-loses-the-crown\/\">sticking to your plan<\/a>. Why am I satisfied now with an outcome that doesn&#8217;t resemble the plan?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>I&#8217;m a Scoutmaster<\/h2>\n<p>About 4 month&#8217;s ago I sat in a troop meeting with the boys and asked them what was important to them.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I want to advance. I want to earn awards.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Me too. And I want to do something fun.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hiking!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>They decided that a snow camp in Big Cottonwood Canyon followed by a day hike to Donut Falls would be fun and help them advance.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve taken boys on this overnighter-plus-hike before. The hike is pleasant in the summer and even more\u00a0rewarding\u00a0with snow-shoes in the winter. I liked their plan.<\/p>\n<p>Permits. Food. Training. We had a good plan.\u00a0Finally, yesterday came.<\/p>\n<p>While Word Press&#8217; mechanical mind was counting down the minutes to publish my post on plans I was already executing our Donut Falls Camp.<\/p>\n<h2>We Failed the Plan&#8217;s Intent<\/h2>\n<p>The camp plan had a clear intent: complete award requirements. \u00a0The hike was just long enough for advancement purposes. Snow camps help the boys advance.<\/p>\n<p>By giving up on the hike we failed to deliver on about half of the plan&#8217;s intent. So why am I happy? Am I just glad to come home earlier and wash up?<\/p>\n<h2>Circumstances Changed<\/h2>\n<p>Of the boys that originally made the plan only one came on the camp. Two of the boys that did come were new to their patrols and didn&#8217;t yet fit in. Another boy\u00a0that came wouldn&#8217;t benefit at all from the advancement opportunities &#8212; he already has those awards.<\/p>\n<h2>Things Change at Work<\/h2>\n<p>How often at work does a plan take so long to execute that the architects are gone by the time all\u00a0is finally done? Have you ever felt trapped by the structure of a plan no longer in touch with the current facts?<\/p>\n<p>The director sets a vision. Group managers create supporting goals. You labor away on improving measurements and skills. When you finally finish the director is gone and you&#8217;re out of touch with the new direction.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t get trapped in a dead plan.<\/p>\n<h2>Serve Deeper Values<\/h2>\n<p>I volunteer as a scoutmaster because I want to prepare young men to be successful men. (The unit I&#8217;m in only serves boys, sorry.) Scouting provides a framework for engaging and growing youth. Awards are just one enticement.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Real growing comes when boys make friendships, embrace difficulty, and prevail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m happy. The four boys slept in one tent. They happily chatted past 1 AM. They broke camp together and without complaint. Each did his share. And the camp\u00a0was genuinely challenging with temperatures into the teens.<\/p>\n<p>There was no fighting. There was no shirking.<\/p>\n<p>There was friendship, helpfulness, courtesy.<\/p>\n<h2>Serve Today and Tomorrow<\/h2>\n<p>We&#8217;ll take another run at the mountain. They&#8217;ll all get to see the falls &#8212; with or without snow.<\/p>\n<p>More important, they are more likely to take on challenges again because they faced credible difficulty and worked together to have fun.<\/p>\n<p>And, yes, I didn&#8217;t mind a hot bath.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t despair when company changes make your plan irrelevant. Take the good your plan has enabled you to deliver. 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